Been focused on my health and fitness lately, mostly health, and I can honestly say this is the best I’ve felt my entire life. Mentally, physically, emotionally. To be honest, I used to let people thin-sham me and make me feel horrible about being skinny (or a bag of bones or even “girl you need to eat a burger”) but I had to take my power back. Yes that effected me, I’m human, and it shouldn’t have. I eat damnit! But most of all I’m healthy and I’m comfortable. For the last few weeks I’ve been eating enough meals for two and that scale hasn’t budged. Then I was like, “what the hell, I look fine. I love me.” What I’ve learned is, The only thing that matters is how you feel when you look in the mirror everyday. And if you don’t like what you see, work hard to change it, whether it’s hitting the gym or whatever will make you comfortable with that reflection staring back at you. We all have flaws and insecurities but the worst thing you can do is project those insecurities on someone else. That doesn’t make you or them feel better in the end. In the words of Beyonce, “you can say what you want I’m the shit, I want everyone to feel like this!